Friday, 1 February 2013

this little street


i don't know how things are where you live but certainly in the town we live in, and most likely in the majority of england, the sense of local community is all but diminished. people don't know their neighbours names, let alone speak to them.  everyone is far too busy.  and the neighbourhood kids don't know one another or play in the street, as the traffic makes it too dangerous. such is the world we live in.

that is, apart from in our street.  the road we live on is a very small road and i think this is one of the reasons why it seems to be fairly unique in having a proper sense of community.  we were amazed when we moved in that numerous neighbours introduced themselves and offered to help out in any way they could.  one particular couple threw a barbecue and invited all the neighbours to introduce us and a couple of other recent new-comers to the road.  when we told our friends, their response was "where exactly have you moved to? the 1950's?".

so i just wanted to take a minute to acknowledge how lucky we are to live in a little part of the world where neighbours are friendly, all on first name terms, keep an eye on each other's houses when people are on holiday, lend a helping hand with things like faulty internet connections, or {in our case} building a garage roof!  i recently had the privilege of chicken-sitting for our neighbours when they were away and was paid in fresh eggs and raspberries. seemed like an excellent deal and Ava loved going to see the chickens every day.  i think we are very fortunate to have quite by chance moved somewhere that will be a lovely community to raise our little family in.  i never want to move.

i am sincerely hoping that my impression that neighbourliness is generally a thing of the past is wrong and you are all going to tell me that you too are lucky to live in such a neighbourhood. 

13 comments:

  1. How lovely! I totally agree that it seems to be becoming a thing of the past, which is a great shame. We know a couple of our neighbours but only to chat to for a few minutes in passing, and there are no other children down our road. I'm glad I at least have a few neighbours who I can wave cheerily at! Becky x

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  2. I could have written this exact post. We live on a sort of village square and everyone on the square is so friendly. There is a real 'block' community and I love it-everyone took the children trick or treating together, tidies up litter and help each other out. If we ever moved to a bigger house, I would miss everyone on the block so much. It is so different to our old area (more central in London) which was hideously unfriendly. Hurrah to lovely communities!

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  3. I feel the same way where I'm living right now, but 7 years ago when I was living in Colombia (South America) I knew everybody in our neighborhood. They used to called me: "ojitos" which means little eyes ( I guess because I'm an Asian) and I didn't even know a single word of Spanish but they were very helpful and they always found a way to help me out and believe it or not thanks to those people I was able to improve my Spanish. They were so friendly they even made my most favorite Colombian meal the day before leaving the country.
    I guess it all depends also of the place where you are living in, I guess is just a matter of getting used to it :)


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  4. It is very nice to have good neighbors. Here we are lucky, the people are very nice but we are in the province, it is not the same in the capital.

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  5. That is great that you live on such a nice street. Friendly people/neighbors make for a nice community. We too live on a very small street (in a small town in the US). We know all our neighbors and they chicken sit for us..we cat sit for them. It is a great place to live and I am glad our kids are growing up here!

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  6. I want to live on that street and in the 1950's
    Lucky you..

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  7. Thanks for the comments everyone I have loved reading them and am happy to find that some of you are also living in neighbourly places!

    Hena, i'll let you know when a house comes up for sale here or when i perfect my time machine ;)

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  8. We live on a tiny street too, our little boy is probably too small to be playing outside with other kids yet, but there is a little girl five houses down and lots of older couples with grandkids and lots of children nearby. I imagine we will enforce community wherever we live, although some people don't want to participate which is sad...

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    1. i like the idea of enforcing community! if it isn't there, build it! :)

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  9. Aw, thats really nice, so very very rare now too! I live in a little dead end street and everyone is quite friendly, it's nice to know the people who live round you are lovely people

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  10. Hi popping over because I too am going to Britmums Live
    I'm originally from Birmingham and we all used to know each other in our town. Now I live in Gloucestershire and it's a small town and everyone knows each other- and their business. Think Facebook has a lot to do with that too.
    I moved last July into the next road though and have to say the old street was much closer than this. And you can always knock on for some sugar.

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    1. thanks for stopping by! :)

      ah i am glad to hear there are other places where neighbourliness is still to be found! you're right, social media may well help bring back some of the sense of community which was lost.

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